# Would Miranda Hobbs Still Choose a Loewe Bag Without Her Friends?
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Chapter 1: The Influence of Friendship on Consumer Choices
The reboot of the iconic Sex and the City, titled And Just Like That..., has returned, showcasing the lives of its beloved characters as they navigate love, sexuality, and the urban landscape in their 50s. Miranda Hobbs, played by Cynthia Nixon, is now delving into her sexuality and pursuing gender studies at university. However, a point of contention arises: her choice to carry a Loewe bag to class.
This raises an intriguing question: Would Miranda still be indulging in such high-end designer items if she weren't surrounded by a circle of affluent friends? As an aspiring writer, I ponder if I would even consider a Loewe bag without the influence of And Just Like That… constantly echoing in my mind.
Peer Pressure and Consumer Culture
Living in Hong Kong, a city saturated with advertising, I have firsthand experience of the relentless consumer culture. The densely packed streets are lined with billboards and promotional materials, making shopping a favored pastime. After relocating over 15 years ago, I was left with a haunting memory from a visit back in 2017.
During my stay, my friends immediately scrutinized my handbag, seemingly judging my worth based on its brand. Their subtle comments conveyed that carrying a less recognized bag indicated a struggle in London. While they showered me with meals and drinks, I sensed their anxiety stemming from mounting credit card debt tied to their obsession with luxury brands.
Imagine if Miranda Hobbs was surrounded by brand-obsessed friends like Charlotte, Carrie, and Samantha. Would she feel pressured to dress up for brunches and partake in shopping sprees? As a successful lawyer, she could certainly afford designer bags, but is that the measure of her worth? Do we really need luxury items simply because we can afford them, or are we just succumbing to societal expectations?
Advertising and Its Impact on Our Lives
Reflecting on my time in Hong Kong, I remember the omnipresent Louis Vuitton store near Central station, which seemed to lure me in no matter where I exited the metro. Even late at night, its lights beckoned me to spend money. After two weeks of exposure to such relentless marketing, I found myself contemplating whether I should buy the LV bag that Emma Stone sported in a recent advertisement. Thankfully, my meditation practice helped me recognize the absurdity of these thoughts.
Wasn't this scenario reminiscent of Miranda's life in New York? Did she really purchase those bags just for the sake of it?
Chapter 2: Life Post-Pandemic and the Burden of Expectations
During the pandemic, when working from home became the norm, my wardrobe shifted drastically. The most formal outing was a trip to the grocery store, and my closet remained untouched for months. Recently, as restrictions eased, I ventured out to a restaurant in Knightsbridge, unsure of what to wear.
After a struggle, I finally donned a small handbag, but realized I needed little more than my phone and keys, which could fit in my coat pockets. Yet, as I walked through Chelsea, I felt out of place among the elegantly dressed women flaunting designer bags. My friend’s Valentino bag only amplified my insecurities when she questioned my choice.
Strolling past a Loewe store reminded me of everything I had left behind—the allure of luxury and the high life. I found myself yearning for that Loewe bag again.
Challenging Consumerism and Finding Personal Value
While my writings on Medium aim to provide value, this piece serves as a reflective exploration of consumerism. Many readers may resonate with the impulse to shop during events like Black Friday or Boxing Day. For some, shopping becomes a stress-relief mechanism, and while I appreciate quality products, I vehemently oppose accruing debt to afford them.
It’s essential to question what we carry in our bags and what those items symbolize for us. Do we understand that not owning a designer bag does not diminish our worth? Are we confident enough to know we control our possessions rather than the other way around?
Ultimately, if your self-esteem hinges on the brands you carry, it might be time to seek professional guidance. Alternatively, if you're looking for a discreet way to reassess your life, consider subscribing to my newsletter for more insights.